by Danielle Wright
ARE TWIN FLAMES REAL OR FAKE?
The concept of twin flames, angel numbers, and spiritual awakenings has roots in various mystical and psychological traditions. These ideas have gained traction through New Age spirituality and the rise of TikTok, where tarot readers have flooded the platform, appealing to users' emotions and sparking questions about reality: Does my ex miss me? Will my ex contact me again? Are my ex and I twin flames?
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The twin flame concept can be traced back to Plato’s Symposium, where he described an ancient human race split into two halves by the gods, destined to seek their other half to feel whole. This idea was later integrated into spiritual traditions like Taoism (Yin and Yang) and some interpretations of Hindu philosophy, which discuss cosmic unity and soulmates.
In New Age spirituality, twin flames differ from soulmates by involving an intense connection, personal growth, and sometimes struggle. But is it real? While there’s no scientific basis, the intense dynamics of twin flame relationships can feel real for many, as they often mirror attachment styles and emotional patterns common in close relationships. It serves as a popular way to explain or interpret transformative relationships.
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One of these transformations includes having a spiritual awakening. The concept of spiritual awakening is ancient, appearing in Hinduism (as moksha or liberation), Buddhism (enlightenment), and Christian mysticism. It describes awakening to one’s true nature, deeper consciousness, or unity with a higher power. For many, meeting their twin flame reportedly triggers this awakening, marking a profound shift in their perspective.
Spiritual awakenings became a core concept in New Age spirituality in the 20th century, with influences from psychology, including Carl Jung’s idea of individuation and an emphasis on personal transformation. These experiences often mirror psychological growth and emotional shifts, and people who undergo them report feelings of profound insight.
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"My spiritual awakening began the moment things went up in flames with my now ex-situationship. He appeared on a show I produced on YouTube. We dated on and off for about 18 months, and once things ended, I sat on my couch one day, looked up at the ceiling, and something overtook me. I wanted to pray more, I wanted to become closer to God; I wanted more than anything to have a relationship with Him," says Lisa K. Stephenson.
"I then began seeing angel numbers and searching for their meanings, especially as I started seeing them often. But then I got so caught up in it that I was watching tarot on TikTok, tarot on YouTube, and almost became more obsessed with the person than with God. We all know that God is a jealous God, so I had to pull myself back, ground my thoughts, and regain control of my behavior. It's been two years now since I’ve had this awakening. I’ve been celibate, and my relationship with God is growing stronger by the day. I do believe that person was my twin flame, and I do believe there are signs that a twin flame misses you. One sign in particular for me is earworms—the song I hear most is Mary J. Blige’s Gotta Believe."
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WHAT ARE EARWORMS?
An earworm is a catchy piece of music or song snippet that gets stuck in a person’s mind, often replaying repeatedly without conscious effort. The term is derived from the German word Ohrwurm, meaning “earworm,” and it describes those tunes that loop persistently in our heads, sometimes for hours or even days. Experiencing earworms can sometimes be seen as a sign from the universe that your twin flame is thinking about you.
These are usually simple, repetitive structures like a jingle or pop chorus. It’s often a good idea to Google the song and search for any deeper meaning behind the lyrics. However, it’s also important not to overthink it—maybe you heard the song somewhere before going to bed, or it played in the background while you slept. Typically, these jingles are familiar to us in some way, and the brain may replay these catchy tunes to “resolve” them or as a form of mental rehearsal of something enjoyable and familiar.
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“When I was burying myself in tarot, I got caught up in the signs that my ex-situationship might miss me, like seeing the make and model of his car, seeing his name everywhere, or hearing songs play in my head out of nowhere. But the reality is, he still didn’t reach out, which then made me feel like all of that was pointless anyway. Despite the time that’s passed, I still would love to rekindle things and work on our relationship, moving past the issues that plagued us before. I think wanting those things only further fueled my delusion.”
As Lisa mentioned, these are typical signs that your twin flame may be thinking about you—but is it real if they don’t reach out? These concepts lack scientific backing, largely because they’re subjective experiences that can’t be objectively measured. However, the mind is powerful, and some believe you can manifest them back when the universe deems it appropriate. Maybe you or they need more time to grow. Either way, God will not align you with anything that isn’t necessary for your overall purpose. Whether it’s a twin flame or not, here are some realistic signs that someone might be thinking about you.
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EYE TWITCHING – If your top right eyelid twitches and you start to think about a person, and then the twitching suddenly stops, it could be a sign that the person you’re thinking of is either thinking of you or speaking positively about you.
STRANGE PAGES VIEWING YOUR SOCIALS – The person on your mind may be trying to see what you’re up to and deciding whether to reach out. Don’t confuse this with spam accounts on Instagram, as that theory has been debunked many times. While there’s no concrete evidence that random views indicate someone spying, you can take it as a cue to begin manifesting your person.
RANDOM MESSAGES OR CALLS – If you start receiving random phone calls or messages you don’t usually get, it may be a sign that the person you’re thinking of is trying to reach out. However, don’t place too much weight on this, as companies often sell our data to third-party ad agencies, so many of these calls and texts could just be spam. T-Mobile, for example, has been criticized for this practice.
EARWORMS – As mentioned before, an earworm can also be a sign that your twin flame is thinking about you, especially if it’s a song you haven’t heard in a while or an artist you don’t usually play. Take a moment to Google the lyrics and focus on the part of the song that’s looping in your head.
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Are these signs that you should reach out or break no contact with someone from your past? Not necessarily, especially if you’re a woman. Don’t go back to a man, but if you’re a man reading this, consider setting aside pride and reaching out—closed mouths don’t get fed. If neither party is willing to make the first move, and the man isn’t interested in leading, the relationship may not deserve your time.