by Danielle Wright
To show a man your feminine side, you must first understand feminine energy.
Feminine energy has been discussed here on numerous occasions, so we encourage you to check out some of our other articles on the topic. This article is meant to teach independence and how it correlates to your feminine aura, so if you’re ready for that, keep on reading. Recently, there’s been a lot of talk online about the 4B movement and now, the Vegan Movement by She’s SINGLE Magazine.
Unlike the 4B movement, the Vegan Movement is not about abstaining from sex for the rest of your life or cutting off your hair in solidarity with women’s rights. Instead, it’s all about teaching women the importance of choosing better when it comes to a partner and how to go about doing so. When it comes to relationships, it’s easy for women to slip into a union that is not healthy for their personal or spiritual growth.
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This is why, more often than not, you’ll see high school sweethearts take a break and then return to one another, or two lovers go from being separated for a decade to reuniting, getting married, and starting a family (Ahem, Ashanti and Nelly, I’m looking at you). The point is, women need time to find themselves and build their confidence to better show up in a relationship or marriage. The same goes for men—they have a period in their lives when their aim is simply to bed as many women as possible, have a rotation, and be a player until they find their passion and begin to actively pursue it.
Unfortunately, for women, the period between high school and completing an undergraduate degree is not openly discussed. It is during this time that women should remain single, focusing on their studies and goals in life. Once you’ve completed your degree, you should look for a career in which you can take what you’ve learned, apply it to your occupation, and grow within the organization. During this time, maybe after about a year or two, you can consider moving into your own place. This golden year will help shape you into the woman you’re going to be for the rest of your life, so pay attention.
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Living independently before marriage and embracing a period of being single can be incredibly beneficial for women. This is a time of self-discovery: learning your needs in a personal relationship, setting boundaries, building emotional resilience and self-worth, exploring interests and passions, as well as preventing co-dependency.
Most of the women seeking advice on how to be feminine or listening to pseudo image and relationship coaches online are typically women who were male-centered at a young age. Once they got burned, played, or tossed aside—often left with children—they finally start living an independent life, which feels unfamiliar. Without doing much internal work, they “monkey-branch” to another partner and then another, only to keep receiving the same outcome.
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At that point, the men are not to blame; it is you, the woman. Women need to take time to construct their lives the way they want them to go without anyone else’s input. What types of candles do you like? What color paint do you want for your bedroom? And so forth. The brain plays a pivotal role in discovering our passions and determining what resonates with us and what doesn’t. This process is complex and involves several interconnected brain functions and regions.