Telegram ‘Rape Chat Groups’ with 70,000 Members Exposed
2025 has entered with a bang—marked by shootings, bombings, and now the exposure of 70,000 men in a Telegram group chat discussing rape.
Two weeks ago, news began surfacing about thousands of men participating in chat groups where they share suggestions on how to rape and sexually assault women. These men describe methods of sedating their partners to prepare for these attacks and have even gone as far as posting photos of their victims. In some cases, they invite others from the group to join the assault if they are nearby. Alarmingly, these users claim to have targeted women within their own households, including wives, partners, sisters, and mothers.
The story of Gisele Pelicot comes to mind. The French woman recently earned a victory in court after her ex-husband, Dominique Pelicot, 72, was found guilty of all charges by a judge in Avignon, Southern France. What’s most chilling is that marital rape remains legal in many countries, making it nearly impossible for wives to press charges against their husbands. Men in these chat groups who plot to drug and rape their spouses might not face prosecution unless they involve others in the crime.
Although this shocking news broke weeks ago, it has only recently gained traction online, intensifying the ongoing negative discourse between men and women about relationships and dating. Women now face heightened fear about the men they interact with or date. Despite reassurances like "Not all men," the existence of such groups raises the question: Who can truly be trusted? Platforms like Reddit and Facebook may harbor similar communities, further compounding these concerns.
Moreover, the inability to identify or publicly name the members of these groups leaves women vulnerable, fueling the belief that everyone must be treated with caution until proven trustworthy. This growing distrust is exacerbated by other recent events, such as the New Year’s Day terrorist attack on Bourbon Street in New Orleans. The perpetrator, Shamsud-Din Jabbar, was reportedly recently divorced and had considered killing his ex-wife before joining the terrorist organization ISIS. After his recruitment, he carried out this heinous act as part of his mission.
It’s difficult to understand the growing hostility some men harbor toward women in their lives. Without comprehensive investigations and reforms, the situation is likely to worsen. Women are urged to remain vigilant, reconsider dating unless they are introduced to someone through a trusted friend or family member, and prioritize safety. While no environment is completely risk-free, meeting potential partners through a supportive community—such as church—can provide some reassurance.
People can wear masks, and no one can truly know another person’s character at their core. However, having a trusted network around you may offer a degree of accountability. Above all, stay safe and protect yourself.
by Danielle Wright
